boy-scouts-will-allow-transgender-boys

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  1. crank

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    No it really isn't, DA. The more people tell you that you really are a boy trapped in a woman's body, the greater the pain will be when the reality of day to day life keeps reminding you it's not true. The people who are (ENTIRELY) responsible for the suicides are the loved ones and doctors who encourage the false narrative.
     
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    Not sure it's a sterotype.
    Look as male hairdressers, male figure skaters, male dancers in the arts, a big percent are gay. And it's pretty obvious.
    Many people can pick out a gay male simply by how they look and act. They are more towards the feminine in both.

    And gay women tend to be more to the masculine side of their spectrum.
    I don't have figures to back this up, in case you're wondering.

    Sure they are, in how they look and act.
     
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    And what is this hard number appropriate age that fits 100% of the population?
     
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    It's not the people telling them that, it's them telling people that.
    Isn't it more the loved one not believing them, ridiculing them, and trying to change them back to who they think they should be?

    But I'd look at any facts you may have.
     
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    Well, gender dysphoric people are technically insane. They are deeply dysfunctional, and 'harmful'.

    Gay is non-harmful and non-dysfunctional.
     
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    Have you stopped any of your kids from having sex before a predetermined age? Yes, we try as parents, but hormones don't always pay attention.
     
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    100% of children ought not be thinking about sex, drugs and rock n roll. That's for the teen years and later.

    If someone thinks so little of their kids, and is so married to their own virtue signalling and hipness that they'll push that boat out to see if it floats, they are disgusting human beings.
     
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    Once again, the more people around you tell you that your delusions are real, the harder that reality will bite.
     
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    The teen years, for most, is what I'm talking about here. Puberty and after.
    I'm not talking about pushing any boat out. For most teens, it starts floating on its own. It is wise for the parent to be aware and be there and say it's not ok. But know that they may not listen and be prepared with a plan B.
     
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    And I'm waiting for some facts.

    Harmful to whom and in what way. Facts.
     
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    We raise our kids to be discerning. If you get them to 14 or 15 and they're still years away from having any kind of romantic attachment, you're on the right path. That's easy to do, all it takes is 100% commitment to raising them with solid self-esteem and ambition (for themselves).
     
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    I thought you were referring to 4 and 5 year olds.
     
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    harmful to themselves, obviously.
     
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    My daughter was 16 when she got a serious boyfriend and it lasted for about 2 yrs.
    I knew there wasn't 2 yrs of dating and no sex. I was young once also. And I also knew, there was no way I could stop any sex they may have been having without tearing the family apart.
     
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    No. I said puberty.
    I said in 1 post, I've heard at 4 or 5, kids have been known to know they were not the sex they were born with.

    Are we mixing topics?
     
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    I am.
    Lol, those are the only things gay men do? They aren't mechanics carpenters, or iron workers because those type of guys don't act like the stereotype and you can't tell.
    A fey hairdresser perhaps but that's easy. I can pick out the guys that are gay who aren't.
    This is circular logic.

    You don't have **** but narrow minded sterotypes based on television.

    Bullshit
     
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    https://tgmentalhealth.com/basic-issues-in-transgender-mental-health/
    • Basic Issues in Transgender Mental Health
    This page contains a short outline of issues that arise for transgender individuals, particularly those effecting one’s emotional and psychological state. I hope to expand on many of these in future posts (check the ‘categories’).

    Gender Dysphoria – This is a fundamental unease and dissatisfaction with the biological sex one is born with which results in anxiety, depression, restlessness, and other symptoms. The dysphoria often acts as a catalyst to change one’s body and gender expression (how one presents to the world) to be more in keeping with what is felt to be one’s gender identity (the gender that one feels oneself to be).
     
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    "Stopping sex" isn't the goal. Raising kids who won't want it (in their early or mid teens) IS the goal. You can't raise kids in slap-happy fashion, then try to prevent something you haven't taught them not to want.

    Plenty of kids reach college age without having even had an innocent romance. In some cultures, the majority do.
     
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    Anyone who listens to a 4 year old say he feels like a girl and ACTS on it, is as stated. A disgusting human being.

    And FTR, they don't 'know' they are not the sex they were born with, any more than they know anything else at that age. This is ENTIRELY an adult agenda, playing out on our poor innocent kids.
     
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    I didn't say anything like what you read and responded.

    [/QUOTE]A fey hairdresser perhaps but that's easy. I can pick out the guys that are gay who aren't. This is circular logic.[/QUOTE]Sure, on can pick out who's not gay. And if one thinks one is or isn't is not sure proof either. Just an average.

    [/QUOTE]You don't have **** but narrow minded sterotypes based on television.

    Bullshit[/QUOTE]I suppose. You know me better than I do, LOL.

    Well it looks like I haven't figured out how to put quotes properly around the previous post I'm responding to.
     
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    Gender dysphoria is a symptom, not a disease. The disease is 'maladjustment'.
     
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    I am quite certain a vast vast majority aren't acting on it.
     
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    I don't think you or I are going to solve this topic.
    In the mean time, a girl who thinks she's a boy to the extent wants to be one and join the boy scouts. Can he/she?

    Is it odd that those who want to change sex or are transgender are very feminine for a boy or masculine for a girl?
     
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    In that case, how do these figures come about? Who is listening to this stuff with enough 'patience' to comment on it externally? Most parents will sensibly ignore non-productive and potentially harmful fixations that their small children develop. We all know that little kids imagine all sorts of things, but we don't make a 'thing' of it - much less single out ONE particular fantasy and pretend it matters.
     
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    Did someone hack your account.

    Seeing as I'm homosexual, and spend time with homosexual men almost every week, yeah I would.

    It isn't hard.
     

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