How Not to React when Your Son Tells You that He's Gay

Just to make sure I am following your logic, eating a vegetable makes me a vegetarian?

 

I'd no more try to explain that to a homosexual than I'd try to explain to a compulsive hand washer what's perverted about washing his hands every five minutes.

You've had those for decades. They're not enough for you.

That's rather gilding the road apple, I'm afraid.

 

if that's ALL you eat you are


if penis is ALL you take, you're gay
if you like penis some of the time, you are are bi.



choices

 

Explain that to sec, seems he doesn't follow.

 

it's still a choice to eat just veggies

 

Okay... Ummm, that's nice dear.

 

it's not a choice to be black though

 

No, I don't believe in imposing morality on to people or forcing people to take someone they don't want. That't you, and you think everybody is the same because it's what you went through. It's also called a strength in numbers argument btw.

Not bisexual. She just hated men.

Sorry that you're impotent. You must hate not being able to have sex.

 

You are generalizing because you are assuming that because it is true for you then it must be the same way for all gays.

And why would bisexuals be able to choose but you are not? What is the scientific evidence to show that?

 

Rejecting a minor child for something beyond and putting them out on the street their control is repulsive. That's not up for debate.

And I'm not impotent. My body does not react sexually to women, just men. That is not my choice, it's just the way it is.

 

ZERO proof. ZERO

 

If homosexuals can choose to be heterosexual than they are really bisexual.

 

my body only reacts to petite blondes, and not 300# black girls. Some people LOOOOOOVVEEEEEEE the big girls.


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still no scientific proof of a gay gene, then huh?

 

I do agree that it is repulsive.

But i also find it repulsive to force a person to keep their child just as it is repulsive to force a woman to give birth.

And like I say, we may not be able to choose whom we're attracted to, but we can choose on how we act on those reactions.

For instance, what if you were attracted to Tookie Williams?

He's a black man who shot some people, including a twelve year old girl, with a shotgun that left a hole through her head that was big enough you can see through to the other side.

Would you really want to have some activity with a monster like that?

And what if that other person did not return those emotions? Would you want to force yourself on to another without their consent?

Which is a crime btw.

 

Nope..

 

umm

no

not eating meat and only eating veggies would

only taking penis makes you homosexual

doing it with men and women makes you bi

doing it only with the opposite sex equals hetero

not doing it at all.............................who knows until the deed is done

you could claim to be homo/heterosexual but how do you know for sure until you've done the deed? Maybe as a guy, you might think you're homosexual but the first time you take a delivery to the rear you find that it's not that much fun and go back to the natural selection of heterosexual sex

 

WTF are you even talking about? No one is talking about forcing anyone to do anything.

You're crying about people having an opinion about repulsive actions. Guess what? People have opinions. What these parents did was awful. They are not immune to criticism. That's what you want, people to have immunity from criticism.

Sorry, not going to happen.

 

Than you really need to think it through.

Everybody knows before they do anything. Response to visual stimuli elicits a response.

It's based on what stimulates arousal.

And magically are no longer aroused by homoerotic stimuli?

Proof, or even the slightest amount of evidence what sdo ever for this cockimamie crap?

 

No, it's you guys and your liberal friends that demand immunity to criticism. You think that you can say anything you want without recriminations.

If it's okay for you, then when the rules are set it's okay for me too.

To claim otherwise is a double standard and a special privilege.

or do you think you're above the rules that you expect others to follow?

 

You're here criticizing aren't you? Is someone forcing you not to? No. Then what is your problem?

 

That I've actually been very reasonable and very civil with you and you are getting upset because I don't agree with you on some thing with these last posts.

Also, i've answered many of your question directly and fairly and honestly but you're avoiding mine.

And it's not my problem it's your problem.

 

A popular trait amongst internet gays.

 

I've answered all of your questions in a rather in depth manner.

One more time- who here is telling you that you can't express an opinion? Who?

Furthermore, who is forcing the parents in the OP to keep their kid? No one. They are being criticized, yes- as they should be. But but no one is forcing them to do anything. So what is your issue?

 

I'm not the one with the issue.

You're the one that's been getting upset with me, and you are also being somewhat dishonest.

 

You made the claim that we are trying to force others into silence. I'm not upset, I don't get what you're saying. We have done nothing of the sort. Are we critical? Hell yeah. And we're allowed to be. No one has forced this family to do anything. Nobody.

And no one is forbidding you to express your opinions either. So you're making very little sense.