I do and I know if the woman says no it stops. The woman has control of if her pants stay on or not. The man who says no to the woman will pay dearly. I know this from experience.
I have been married to the same woman for 17 years. We both have learned to give and take to make it work
A little over twice as long, but it is give and take and not keeping score either. Truth is that if one loves someone, giving is desired and enjoyable for it own sake and receiving, it is more accurate than "taking" is validation not a compensation. Just my take on things...
I have been married to the same woman for 27 years and we have done the same, yet my comment is still well supported. Note I did not say all women are, only that there are many many many examples of it out there.