He's a decent hard working guy, doesn't drink, doesn't go out much, basically his girlfriend and children are his world.
The plot keeps thickening....soon she’ll be a prostitute and oedoohile. I don’t know why you respond to me either. I guess you’re just too emotional Good fathers get joint custody of their children, bad fathers don’t so you can tell me that your friend is wonderful but if he couldn’t even get joint custody there’s a reason.
Perhaps so. Usually the standard to be used is "best interest of the child" to be determined on a case by case basis. If the court errs then the case should be appealed.
She must have been hot as hell for him to pick her despite knowing about her bad personality and hsving been warned about it.
83% of sole custody awards go to mothers. Does that mean 83% of fathers in sole custody cases are bad parents? https://gucciardofamilylaw.com/child-custody-gender-bias-courts-anti-father/
Possibly because when he moved back from saudi, he got a house/job in the same town as his children, then went to court for custody. The mother moved house a couple hours away mid court case. I personally think she moved to keep him away from his children, that's why she waited for him to get a house and new job before the move. There was literally no other reason for her to move, no friends, family or job in the place she was moving too. Anyways he lost apeal full custody, the mother is not a criminal, drug addicts, or child abuser. She us simply a horrible person and a bad mother. I don't care what you say the court will always side with the mother unless there is somthing huge and she is a danger to get children. As she had moved a distance away mid court case the judge deemed it not practical for joint custody or any more access for the father than 1 evening per week and occasional time in school holidays. Hes considerd moving closer to his children but he's sure she would simply move area again to deny him getting more access. He's been outplayed every move.
I’d love to hear her side. It’s one thing I’ve learned. I remember in my classroom a kid complaining about a teacher and how badly she treated him. I asked him to tell me what she would say...he said “she would say I throw books at kids etc” two sides to every story. He wanted to he could get the kids for the summer
And probably 80% of men don’t want sole custody. So many men bitch about it but when it comes down to it they don’t want full custody
I'm pretty sure fathers would be just as passionate and driven to have custody of their children as moms but if you think we are careless and neglectful of our responsibilities then that says more about you than it does us men. By all means, enlighten me with more of your knowledge of male psychology
https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/ Check out this movement. It highlights the unfair court system in the UK. "Fatherlessness is an obscenity. No child should be denied their human right to a father yet nearly 1 in 3 children now lives without a father in the UK – that’s nearly 4 million fatherless children. Every day 200 children will lose contact with their father & other family members in secret family courts. Help us end the cruel & degrading treatment of families by the government." https://www.fathers-4-justice.org/ It's a huge issue over here, good fathers are simply being denied access to their children. At the end of the day you are simply advocating a system that denies a child a father.
We just have different battles. I would never advocate anything that denies a child a father. But in reality due to socialization,women have always been the primary caregivers. I will repeat the same thing, ....most men do not want to be primary parents. If that were the case you would see men being homemakers in the similar numbers you see women? I have seen cases where men fight for custody, not because they want it but because they want to hurt the woman. Kids are the pawns
It's not fair or ethical to stereotype. Each case has to be treated individually. So the fact you say most men don't want custody, or the guy you know only wanted to do it to spite his ex has nothing to do with this. You cannot pre judge. It's like me spouting facts like mothers "kill their children" at a greater rate than fathers. Then assuming children are not safe with mothers. It's stupid and not true each case is individual.
I am not stereotyping. I am stating a fact. Most men do not want full custody from their wives unless there is a real good reason. Most men do not want to be homemakers. I’m not talking about shared custody I am talking about full custody. Or do you believe in divorce cases that most men want full custody? There is one other point. When a woman gives up her children she is viewed so negatively. But when a father gives up his children often he seen as being punished. Do you really believe that most men fight for full custody Of course each case has to be treated individually. When did I say otherwise. I think your analogy about more mothers kill their children is silly. Since mothers kill more infants, fathers kill more eight and older.We now have the answers. Let’s give fathers the infants and when they become a give them back to the mothers LOL.
I really do question your intelligence.... this thread is CLEARLY about dad's that go to court and fight for their children and lose out to bias system favoured towards the mother. Like I said even though a lot of dad's don't want custody (I'm not denying that). What I'm staying the fact that some dad's don't want custody has no relevance in a court case where the dad is fighting for custody. What are you trying to say, " because most dad's don't want custody, the dad that's fighting with for is should be treated as a father that doesn't want responsibility"? Or is your point completly irrelevant as i suspect and you don't know what you are even saying?
Please don’t question my intelligence. On my dumbest day I am probably smarter than you on your smartest day What You are doing is giving one example and making it the norm and I am generalizing, that’s what you have to do in , cite stats ... because some man couldn’t get custody you act as though no man can get custody. I know a friend whose wife got full custody and he went to court because he wanted equal custody and he got it so can I conclude that all men can do that?
