How a husband can enjoy sex that is grudgingly given by his wife

I wouldn't bet on that...

Woman just care more about appearance...

 

So cleanliness, maintaining a sanitary healthy house is only for "appearance".....A man would think that in his efforts to denigrate what they consider a " woman's job"....you proved my point....

I can imagine that unless you were having guests you would never remove the garbage from your house or sanitize the bathrooms or flush the toilet or wash your clothes or clean the floors , or wash the dishes and wipe down the counters .........P-yew....

 

I took a part time job cleaning a laundry and I can tell you the womans restrooms look like they stuck dynamite in a roll of toilet paper and crapped all over the place...

It's (*)(*)(*)(*)ing gross...

It's so bad I quit the position ...

 

When I was manager of Rite Aid....the women's restroom was so bad that my staff (All Female) would go to McDonalds rather than clean it. Needless to say It had to be cleaned daily, and as I was in charge it fell upon me....I still have nightmares.

 

So you switched from "women just want to keep up appearances in their home " to one unprovable anecdote about "a women's public restroom is dirtier than a men's".....as some kind of response/rebuttal(???)

.....and totally ignored addressing the post of mine you quoted.....

 

Look, the notions that ladies are any better than dudes is an alien concept to me - if anything woman have a preconceived conception of how dudes act and due to that notion overdue it by 10x....

It appears (at least to me) that woman don't care.... They have no issue flushing their tampons down the toilet and letting guys like me have to stick our hands in a toilet to get them because they clogged the toilet...

 

Sounds like it's personal and way off what was being discussed.....bye

 

Well it is when you're attempting to portray woman as nice and clean and men as slobs - that is being dishonest... That is like saying "woman don't fart" because.....

 

For a lot of married men, I'm pretty sure the only sex they get from their wives is grudgingly given, lol

 

Probably at least sometimes, but guys I've known just have a higher tolerance for things getting dirty and procrastinate on them because they don't enjoy them. Easy to tell the difference though, a sexist guy will ask you why you aren't doing it, and a dirty guy won't even have noticed it was dirty.

 

"""higher tolerance for things getting dirty and procrastinate on them"""

Translation from "man" words to real words : "too lazy"


Did ya know lots of women don't like cleaning either........but if their house is dirty, they're slobs....if a man's house is dirty he "has a high tolerance for dirty things"....


Ok, ok, I'll quit pickin' on those poor guys.....

 

Sex before marriage can mitigate some of the risk while keeping an open mind to being sexually adventurous can help others. If one looses interest in sex then the one being denied sex needs to find another sexual outlet that is OK with their partner, or just give up sex, or get a divorce and find a new mate.

 

Well it's not the guys with a high tolerance for dirty things calling them slobs. Things would of course be smoothest if a partner had the same tolerance for dirtiness as you. I mean, it can be irritating for a dirty person too to have to clean the bathroom twice a week instead of every other week. That's a lot of extra work for what seems like no good reason other than making their partner happy. Meanwhile the clean person is irritated that the dirty person never notices anything is dirty.

 

Are you arguing monogamy is moral and that take on morality is superior or ordained?

 

Fox, you aren't a woman. Quit speaking on our behalf, we are capable of doing so for ourselves. Why you feel incessantly compelled to weigh in on affairs you are utterly ignorant regarding not only is perplexing, it's insulting.

 

Do you have anything of your own to say? Speak for yourself.

 

That's why they have girlfriends. No sex from fat dumpy old wife, no problem the 25 year old blonde at work will do nicely.

 

Huh? Flushing tampons and then asking you to dig them out with your hand? That is comical. Have you never used a plunger?

 

Lol. Why does his pretty, youthful co-worker sate him?

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Why? What is your married experience regarding sex?

 

No, this thread really has nothing to do with monogamy.

 

I'm not married (yet) but I've seen some couples who I can't imagine having sex except grudgingly. Not to speak for all married couples, but the bachelor life doesn't look that bad in comparison.

I think it's a byproduct of modern living and men not knowing how to be men in a life of over-abundance and material convenience - the energy just gets sucked right out of them.

 

You should ask her.

Let me tell you the story of "Walking Small". He was 5'2" bald and ugly, his name was Jay, we called him "Walking Small" after the fearless Sheriff Buford T. Pusser. A friend and I used to hang out at the Rusty Scupper Restaurant and Bar looking for dates when I was in my 20's. Every Friday and Saturday Night "Walking Small" would come in. He would go methodically from girl to girl saying something to them and promptly getting slapped across the face. He was not deterred. By the end of the night he ALWAYS left with a girl on his arm.

Many wives withhold sex as a tool to get hubby to be what THEY want him to be, then marvel in angry dismay when their husband gets caught with the babysitter. My ex-wife did the same thing. However, I arranged it so she would come home and find me in bed with the neighbor's 25 year old daughter who was home form college and had a thing for me at the time. She screamed "WHAT are you doing?", I said back..."what you won't". We were divorced shortly there after, good riddance to the frozen Mackerel.

 

a woman can never cut off the poon from her husband.... she merely changes who supplies it.

 

damn no fault state came back to haunt women in your case, huh? lol

I never cheated, my ex swore I did.... but her accusations were merely to distract from the fact she was. However, after the divorce... at 35 yo... the first girl I nailed was an 18 yo recent graduate..... Sleeved tattoo, beautiful girl, though.... The ex was incredibly jealous as her new b/f was a short, greasy looking fat guy.....

I upgraded.... she downgraded.... I win. lol

 

Worse for her. We lived together from 1992 to 2000 when we got married so I could stay on her health insurance when I went part time at work so I could go back to school. When we divorced in 2008, the house I bought in 1990 wasn't worth much. She got $8,000 and I got $24,000. It's called a Marsden share. Guys, just live with 'em, never commingle bank accounts and ALWAYS make the mortgage payments yourself ALWAYS! Been there done that, came out on top!