How a husband can enjoy sex that is grudgingly given by his wife

Where does your knowledge of women and sex come from?

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Sex is never a duty and always a privilege, on both sides. I don't know about your copy of the marriage contract but mine had no clause mandating sex.

I can't think of any women better than what I can see naked on a my computer screen. There's more to good sex than just sex, and if you're able to get that from anyone but your wife then you've called the validity of the whole marriage into question. Women are actually more justified in cheating than men, as sexual satisfaction from masturbating is much more difficult with them

 

Why does it matter so much to you where the information came from?

I know you think sex for women is all emotion and/or trying to get something but that isn't true or natural....you seem to get your information from a convent in another century....

...sorry, you never had sex because it just felt good but normal people do....


Care to address my post (for a change)...::

Good to see you agree with me that YOU don't speak for ALL women.........being married for 20 years gave you a lot of experience with mEn ??? Really?!

It is UNnatural for any human not to feel lust or a sex drive....you have missed a lot if you only think women have sex for the "emotion" of it all or to get something...

I feel sorry for your daughters....I hope THEY don't continue to live in the 19th century....

 

All opinions are not valid, equal, or worthy of contemplating. Knowledge, education, experience, and practice are very important. And they are such for very good reason.
I believe men and women lust for different things.
If you want to ask me a question, please do.

 

Well.....in my experience women who say men and women lust for different things are women who have been saddled with inadequate sexual partners.

Sexuality can be enjoyed upon so many levels and facets....well that's why so many books have been written about SEX! LOL!!!

In my personal experience it's the ability of a sexual partner to stimulate the BRAIN of their partner which leads to complete and total sexual bliss and of course a man both having it AND knowing how to use it helps a lot as well!!

The ability for a person to get inside the mind of another and take them on a sexual journey even before they have even TOUCHED their sexual partner goes beyond just adequate foreplay and a person who is good and experienced at this is fully capable of bringing a woman to orgasm by just using words and then the lightest of touches.

If a man can do this the rest of the night will be epic as a happy woman means a VERY happy guy.

But mental stimulation if more powerful than any oral stimulation.

AboveAlpha

 

Who typically pays a prostitute? Why? What gender visits strip clubs most? Purchases porn most? Why?

 

Well MEN of course.

And the answer is because of our Genetic Programming to procreate.

AboveAlpha

 

He offered something they wanted?

Control. It sure wasn't money, we weren't married 90% of the time we lived together and I bought the House long before we ever met. I never commingled bank accounts and made all the house payments myself. In the end even in the bad economy we made $33,000 on the house when it was sold (vacation home in the mountains was my sole property), she got about $7,800 and my share was about $25,200. I offered to split the house 50/50 if we did it without lawyers (I hate lawyers). After paying my Barracuda of an attorney I ended up with about half of the $33,000, don't know what she ended up with. It was her choice to go that way. I bear her no malice, she literally saved my life in 1994. I had a very bad bacterial infection in my blood after a horrific vehicle accident. I was in bad shape, she demanded I go to the hospital. My reply was "you'll have to drag me"....by golly she did. Fireman's body drag all the way to the car. She saved my life and I still love her for that (we were together for 18 years). As you know from the forum, I'm pretty easy to hate, I'm quite sure she still does.

 

Evidently he did have something they wanted...
What do you think she wanted control of and why?
I don't know you from the forum yet. I come and go.

 

It is a FACT that women do not just have sex based on emotions or to get something from the man (or woman).

It is NOT an opinion , it is a fact that women have sex because they get horny and it feels good.

YOUR inability to understand this has nothing to do with the FACT.


I was not referring to lusting for different things, I was referring to lust, the sex drive, the wanting to have sex and am very sorry for you that you have never experienced lust.

You: """ Knowledge, education, experience, and practice are very important. And they are such for very good reason. """

Look up "vapid" and "meaningless" and in the dictionary...

 

Me. I do what I want, when I want and answer to no one. She knew that when we got together. Guess she thought she could break me.

 

Boy kid, you are going to get schooled in the real world one day.

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That would make perfect sense.

 

I'm 58 years old and just not the settle down kind, but there's no shortage of ladies who want to be with me... Please tell me why?

 

Another vapid non-response.

I have humanity, science, biology, psychology etc. etc. etc. , the real world and it's history to back up my claim. Just because you personally have never experienced a sex drive does not mean no one else ever has....it's abnormal not to. That means it isn't the norm....normal humans experience a sex drive(lust)......


It is a FACT that women do not just have sex based on emotions or to get something from the man (or woman).

It is NOT an opinion , it is a fact that women have sex because they get horny and it feels good.

YOUR inability to understand this has nothing to do with the FACT

 

Maybe you're fun, wealthy, interesting, good company, exciting. Why do you think?

 

I am fun, interesting and good company. Nothing more.

 

Well, there's your explanation.

 

Welcome to Political Forum's Dating Site.......Hook 'em Up !!!

 

Turn on's....sunsets, kittens, long walks on the beach and mango peach daiquiri's.

Turn off's....mean people, big ego's, war and hunters.

Well I guess that means I am out!

AboveAlpha

 

My German Shepard is looking for a date. Interested?

 

As long as the wife submits its not rape, and for men as long as we get to bump the uglies we don't care how the woman feels if she has fun good and she is willing.

 

Sure, it's probably so much smarter than it's owner

 

I've revised my opinion since the OP.