How a husband can enjoy sex that is grudgingly given by his wife

Whether or not a wife, or husband for that matter, should feel obliged to have sex with his or her spouse, and what can men do to help their wives find sex to be something more than just a chore.

 

I don't see this as a marital rape article. A partner [man or female] can still pleasure their spouse without being in the "mood".

The writing is not particularity good on the article.

 

I've come to view it as something less than rape as well, although I do think such a scenario as described in the article would have a similar psychological effect on the wife as being raped, especially if it occurs over and over for a long period of time.

 

If someone is in a loveless marriage, or similar, then they need to get out. My understanding of such a situation would likely mean that the woman would not consent to any type of sex...
I don't have any information on psychological effect on a hypothetical situation from a poorly worded bible sex guide.

 

Figure out the right way to do it!!

AboveAlpha

 

I LOVE German Sheppard's!!!

Those eye's....that nose....those white teeth.....those leg's.....and do I detect a bit of Minty Freshness as far as breath!!?? LOL!!!

AboveAlpha

 

It is my opinion a happy, fulfilling marriage is made up of two people who are willing to self sacrifice at times. Selfishness and marriage don't work well.... Catering to your spouse becomes more challenging with children, careers, comfort, complacency...
Husbands and wives are both integral parts of a great sex life... It takes both.

 

How did you learn the right way?
What tips would you offer?

 

I dunno... I had a greater sex life when I wasn't married. One advantage of marriage is that it makes things a lot less stressful. Trying to juggle three women a week without any of them knowing about the other isn't for the faint of heart.

But when your wife thinks that saying no is an option, then houston has a few problems.

If Cape Canaveral is too busy for a landing, then Ohare will have to do.

 

What do ya think those 3 women were getting out of it?

 

Seriously?

OK...well in my experience enjoyment of sex should always be preceded by some form, of excitement.

For some people this might be anything from sexual attraction to mental stimulation or even fine dining and a good bottle of wine.

Personally I am into all of that but it's the mental attraction I find most exciting and I do my best to stimulate a woman's mind just as this is directly connected to her sexual desire.

Now I know some people look beyond the physical but since I have it in that department as well I use what I have up stairs in my head as well as use what I have downstairs.

AboveAlpha

 

The pleasure of my company.

 

What you have downstairs?
A woman's clitoral hood is where the magic happens for her physically. A talented mouth is a much more tantalizing asset than an ample package.
Women tend to be emotionally invested and will opt to boost her lover's ego over her own physical gratification almost always...
If you are talented making women feel doted on and important, women will tend to reciprocate by making you feel more than adequate in the sack.
Honesty in bed seems to me a trait both genders lack...

 

Why was it necessary for you to see the three deceivingly? Why not tell them you were seeing others and not interested in a committed relationship?

 

""""""Women tend to be emotionally invested and will opt to boost her lover's ego over her own physical gratification almost always...""""""




Uh, no. You really should quit speaking for all women. Some women will just leave a lover who doesn't physically satisfy her...


But your "hook" for this dating service is pretty good...

 

FoxHastings, you offer nothing interesting or insightful to any discourse here. You also seem completely disinterested in learning anything or teaching anything.
I am convinced all conversation with you is futile.
It is regretful.

 

I will have to answer this in a PM.

AboveAlpha

 

OOOOhh....sounds like Political Forum Dating Service works well.....

 

The article has NOTHING to so with spousal rape.

 

Just to add....an experienced lover like myself is well aware when a woman is having an actual orgasm or not.

The clenching of the vaginal channel around the penis during orgasm is a dead giveaway and as well if a man pinches a woman's erect nipples after she orgasms her nipples will soften....if not and they stay hard she has not obtained orgasm.

I never need to try to find out as the blood pouring out of my nail scratched back is usually a dead giveaway.

Or feminine bite marks in the pillow are a clear indication of her pleasure as well.

AboveAlpha

 

LOL! Yup, anyone who doesn't agree with your gross over generalizations and challenge your speaking for all women probably does seem that way to you....


I'll let you get back to hooking up with the other poster......

 

Your too funny Fox.

LOL!!!

AboveAlpha

 

I predicted it long ago.......

 

So did I but please don't scare the fawns while I pull back on my bowstring.

AboveAlpha

 

Her clit gets very engorged, like a penis when she is very aroused. The temp has more influence on the hardness of her nipples than sex, and women do kegal exercises frequently for several reasons.
You have it all figured out, it seems. Just like almost all the rest.